I know I have posted this once before, but I can not stress enough that you should not go back to a past relationship. There is the saying that “it’s called a break up because it’s broken”. I know I went back……briefly……..but I knew that I was not looking for anything from my ex. I know that he has not changed nor will he ever change. And I don’t want him to change. Not for me or anyone else.
I had stated that, too, in the blog somewhere. That you should not change. For anyone. Nor should you expect the other person to change for you. You are dating them for who they are; and they are dating you for who you are.
To date someone and hope to change them is just wrong.
And to think that someone you dated has ‘changed their ways’ is just plain silly. And a BIG reason for you to not go back to them. Take what you had, cherish it, learn from it, and move on.
Each failed relationship can be a learning experience to bring you closer to the relationship you want and deserve.
Keep looking forward and be excited about the prospects.