Now this guy has it down. He texts. First or in response. We are both busy & know that even a text to try and figure out more about the other is better than nothing (Mr. Unemployed…..). He called Friday night to tell me to have fun & be careful getting home. He knew I would never hear the phone if I am in a bar, but he made the effort……………….(Mr Unemployed? Hear that? Effort.).

Christina listened to his message while we were at the Anchor Bar & she kept making petting motions with her hand towards me because he is that yummy on the phone. Yes he is WAY TOO YOUNG but I can still meet up with him for a drink & a teddy bear, can’t I?

Its nice when a guy wants to get to know more about you and to tell you more about himself when there is little time to do so.  Time constraints are BIG right now and when a person wants to at least let you know that he is still interested and this is not just a blow-off is refreshing.  Maybe he’s like this because he is young and has had less of a chance to become jaded.  Maybe he is just more of a gentleman.  Maybe he’s new to dating and a late-bloomer.  Whatever he is, its nice to have effort on his part.

I had received an email from a new guy on Match. He was oh so hot looking and sounded so nice. He’s an automechanic, can not spell to save his life, and this cutie contacted ME! From what the picture shows, he’s a hottie.  He did not do the stupid ‘wink’ thing. He actually emailed me the first time out. It was simple (kind of like how he comes across) and said “Hey…my name is Mr. Mechanic and I just wanted to say hi. Maybe you’d like to chat soon. Let me know. take care.”

I sent it back (after I stopped drooling & petting the screen) and kept it short & sweet. He then emailed me back and said that I have a great smile, seem like a sweet heart (yes 2 words) & he’d buy me a teddy bear (bc that’s what it said on my profile).

I had sent him my number & then my phone died. I know! Well, I got a phone/car charger for my birthday so that will not happen anymore. He called & left me a message. I LOVED LOVED LOVED how his voice sounded. The catch? He’s 21. But I said I needed a toy. So I guess this was it. God was smiling on me & sending me my birthday present. Oh how fun this could be!